don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm
You should not prioritize the needs of others over your own happiness and well-being. Would you stop with all the people-pleasing? Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm. We'll be fine without you for an hour, Tom—go take a nap in the on-call room before you keel over. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm, for Pete's sake. I know, I know, "Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm." But I have small children—taking time for myself feels impossible.
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