you don't have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm
You should not prioritize the needs of others over your own happiness and well-being. Would you stop with all the people-pleasing? You don't have to set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm, you know. We'll be fine without you for an hour, Tom—go take a nap in the on-call room before you keel over. You don't have to set yourself on fire to keep others warm, for Pete's sake.
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