buyer's regret
An acute sense of regret following a purchase, especially an expensive or extravagant one, due to conflicting feelings of guilt or uncertainty about the decision. I was so dazzled by the new car that I signed the contract right then and there, but I started having terrible buyer's regret the next day after I thought about how much money I'd spent and whether I could have gotten a much better deal for something more practical. She tried to convince herself that the new computer was as impressive as it looked in the store, but she couldn't shake that terrible feeling of buyer's regret. I always think shopping will make me feel better, but I usually end up with buyer's regret, wondering why I bought all this stuff I don't need.
come to
1. To regain consciousness. After Lily fainted, we used smelling salts to get her to come to. The patient wasn't sure where he was when he came to in the emergency room. The guy was knocked out in a fight. What can we do to make him come to?
2. To be called to one's mind. Give me a minute, that song will come to me. Why do the best ideas always come to me in the shower when I can't write them down? A solution finally came to me as I was falling asleep last night.
3. To reach a conclusion of some kind, such as a decision. How did you come to this decision? Tell me your thought process. We've been turning over the evidence for nearly three days, and we're still no closer to coming to any conclusions. After spending the last few nights thinking about what you said, I've come to the conclusion that I need to make some drastic changes in my life.
4. To begin to experience some feeling in respect of someone or something. I came to regret my choice of college very shortly after arriving here. After working in a meat-packing plant for a year, I came to hate the smell of raw meat. At first our marriage was purely one of convenience, but we did come to love one another eventually.
5. To arrive at or visit a particular place. I came to this city because it's home to such beautiful architecture. I'll come to your house tonight and drop off your cake pan. You're always welcome to come to Sunday dinner, you know that.
6. To reach a particular sum, as of a bill. Your total comes to $47.80. My medical bills have come to such a high number that I don't know how I will pay them. The bill comes to $217. Now, we just have to split it seven ways.
7. To have a particular impact, result, or consequence. I hope my lies don't come to any consequence. That meeting nearly came to blows after the fiery testimony. I didn't expect their little disagreement to come to such nasty name-calling!
8. To be revealed or exposed. This meaning is often conveyed through the phrase "come to light." Discrepancies in the yearly budget report only came to light after the auditors began analyzing it. These incriminating documents came to light because of a whistleblower's tireless efforts. When will the truth finally come to light?
9. To resume acting or feeling as one normally does. In this usage, a reflexive pronoun is used after "to." I was starting to get disoriented after being awake for 36 hours straight, but I came to myself after a good night's rest. In the cartoons, a second bump on the head is usually all it takes for one to come to oneself. I was excited to book a vacation until I looked at my nearly depleted bank account and promptly came to myself.
10. To anchor a ship. We'll come to in this port for now and regroup. I'm definitely concerned if the ship still hasn't come to, and no one has had word from the Captain. Of course the ship is moving out in the morning. It never comes to for very long—that's just the life of a sailor.
11. To position a ship with its bow in the wind. The ship needs to come to so that we can visit the port. We need to come to because it seems we've gone off-course. No, you need to come to—turn the ship's bow into the wind.
live to regret (something)
To eventually come to rue or regret some decision that one has made. She's a good woman, Clarence. If you dump her, I think you'll live to regret it. Giving the boss an ultimatum like that was certainly a bold move. I just hope he doesn't live to regret it.
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come to
1. Recover consciousness, as in She fainted but quickly came to. [Second half of 1500s]
2. Arrive at, learn, as in I came to see that Tom had been right all along. [c. 1700]
5. Stop a sailboat or other vessel by bringing the bow into the wind or dropping anchor, as in "The gale having gone over, we came to" (Richard Dana, Two Years Before the Mast, 1840). [Early 1700s] Also see the subsequent entries beginning with come to.
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer. Copyright © 2003, 1997 by The Christine Ammer 1992 Trust. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights reserved.