not play that game
To refuse to adhere to, participate in, or be a part of what is expected or wanted by others, especially because one is suspicious or has already done it before. He kept trying to trip me up during the debate by shifting the focus to previous allegations against me, but I wouldn't play that game. I'm not playing that game, Rob. If there's something wrong, just say it—don't just keep alluding to it passive aggressively.
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