engage (one) in (something)
1. To do some task or activity. In this usage, a noun or pronoun is not typically used between "engage" and "in." Dad is engaged in fixing the car, so he can't talk right now. Hang on, I'm in engaged in ironing, and I don't want to burn myself! Ugh, I'm engaged in cleaning out the attic today—please come keep me company!
2. To include or involve one in something. Phil is always making snide comments, but I refuse to let him engage me in an argument. Although Dad tries to engage me in auto repairs, they're just not interesting to me. I'm sorry I didn't call you back—Jenny engaged me in some juicy gossip from school.
3. To occupy one with a task or activity. See if you can engage the kids in a game this afternoon so that I can get some work done. Don't worry, I'll engage the interns in filing or something. If we have a substitute teacher, they're just going to engage us in dumb busy work all day.
engage (someone) to (someone)
To betroth oneself or someone to someone else; to enter two people into an engagement to be married. I refuse to let my family engage me to a man I've never met before. I can't believe they've engaged Elizabeth to that awful man, simply because he will increase their family's status in this town. I refuse to engage our only daughter to a man she doesn't love!
engage in small talk
To chat with someone, usually a stranger or acquaintance, about benign topics (such as the weather or one's employment). Because Tom and Joe had never met before, they engaged in small talk by the appetizers. If you think that girl's pretty, go over and engage in small talk with her. I want to have deep conversations with people, not engage in small talk! That's so boring and superficial to me.
engaged to (one)
Betrothed to one; engaged to be married to one. You know Kelly's engaged to Cristina, so stop flirting with her! Alicia sported a gorgeous diamond ring after getting engaged to Ed. Wait, Sophia was engaged to Matt? Whoa, I didn't know their relationship had been that serious.
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