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soften the blow

To make something easier, more manageable, or less harmful. The government is introducing financial reliefs to soften the blow to those affected by the devastating floods. Playgrounds typically have sand or rubber grounds to help soften the blow if children fall off the play structures.
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soften one's stance (on someone or something)

Fig. to reduce the severity of one's position regarding someone or something. If he would soften his stance on the matter, I could easily become more cooperative.
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soften someone up

Fig. to prepare to persuade someone of something. I will talk to Fred and soften him up for your request. I will soften up your father before you ask him about it.
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soften something up

to take actions that will make something softer. soften the butter up before you add it to the batter. Please soften up the ice cream before you try to serve it.
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soften up

1. Lit. [for something] to become softer. The butter softened up in the heat of the day. The candles will probably soften up and bend over in this hot weather.
2. Fig. [for someone] to adopt a more gentle manner. After a while, she softened up and was more friendly. It was weeks before Ted softened up and treated us more kindly.
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soften up

Reduce resistance, as in His sales motto was: a fine lunch and a few drinks often will soften up a prospective customer . This expression transfers lessening of physical hardness to lessening mental resistance. It was first used, however, in World War II, where it meant "reduce the enemy's defenses by preliminary bombing." [c. 1940]
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soften the blow

COMMON If something softens the blow, it makes an unpleasant change or piece of news seem less unpleasant and easier to accept. Attempts were made to soften the blow, by reducing what some people had to pay. Note: You can also say that something cushions the blow. The firm is offering to cushion the blow with a £4,000 cash handout spread over two years.
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soften (or cushion) the blow

make it easier to cope with a difficult change or upsetting news.
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cushion/soften the ˈblow

make something unpleasant seem less unpleasant and easier to accept: When he lost his job he was offered a cash payment to soften the blow.
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soften up

1. To make something soft or softer: He softened up his new baseball glove with some oil. He left the butter out to soften it up.
2. To undermine or reduce the strength, morale, or resistance of someone or something: The air force softened up the enemy positions with a heavy bombing campaign. The children gave me a present to soften me up before asking for new bicycles.
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First-of-its-Kind Women's Product Prevents Ingrown Hairs and Softens Stubble Between Waxing and Shaving
To use like fresh pears, soften by method 2 or 3 (steam 1 to 2 minutes).
I am particularly excited to help launch a new product, 'all' Cleans & Softens, from a brand my mom used," Trump says.
With Zim's(TM) SPA Gloves, you can soften your hands during a break at work, or literally while you are working.
Sprinkle gelatin over cold water in a small bowl and let soften 2 minutes.
Bottle-grade PET prices, which rose by 10[cents]/lb last year, are projected to remain fairly flat for at least half of this year and then to soften as new polymer and feedstock capacity comes on stream, easing tight supplies of both.
Keep everything moist, and as your organic materials decompose and create humus with the assistance of the worms, you will more easily be able to incorporate your amendments into the soil that will begin to soften underneath.
If we can soften the city's drinking water (at this plant) it would remove 75 percent of the hardness in the water, which would make everybody's plumbing fixtures last longer, their water heaters would last longer, their clothes would wash better, their dishes would wash better.
This soap cleanses skin of impurities and contains papaya extract to soften and smooth rough skin while noni protects skin from harmful toxins.
As the compost rots, it will gradually soften the soil below.
The stable outlook for 2006 contemplates that the favorable automobile frequency and severity trends will not dramatically deteriorate, while rates will only modestly soften.
To assemble terrine, soften ice cream slightly to a smooth, creamy consistency (do not let melt or get too soft).
E[acute accent]While the housing market is expected to soften in 2006, the home improvement retail sector should remain steady over the near term.
Add bourbon and allow mixture to soften, stirring once or twice, about 2 minutes.
The trail of slime our shelled friends leave softens wrinkles, smoothes skin and is fantastic for scar reduction apparently.