pussywhipped

pussy whip

vulgar slang Of a woman, to control a partner, typically a man, in a domineering, condescending, emasculating manner. Sometimes hyphenated or written as a single word. Dude, my girlfriend and I make decisions together. Just because she's putting her foot down about something doesn't mean she's pussy whipping me. I think there's an element whereby male employees feel as though they're being pussy-whipped if they have to take orders from a female boss. I'm glad she makes you happy, Tom, but don't let her pussywhip you.
See also: pussy, whip

pussy whipped

vulgar slang Totally controlled, domineered, or emasculated by a woman. Typically said of a man. Sometimes hyphenated or written as a single word. I think there's an element whereby male employees feel as though they're getting pussy whipped if they have to take orders from a female boss. Dude, my girlfriend and I make decisions together. Just because she's putting her foot down about something doesn't mean I'm pussywhipped or anything. You need to break up with Janet, Tom—I hate seeing you pussy-whipped like this.
See also: pussy, whip
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You pussywhipped over some girl that's gonna go into the convent?"
There is the falsely cheery, politically correct Aunt Eleanor: "We want you to feel right at home," she tells Sagesse; "We have only a few rules: consideration for others, help when asked, and keep your sense of humor." There is Eleanor's pussywhipped househusband, Don, and their rebellious daughters (rebellious, though, only in a conventional, Sarah Lawrence-ish way).
Simpson to an earlier loss of faith in the justice system when Mike Tyson, also a black athlete, was convicted in a trial skewed by feminist date-rape dogma and hailed by pussywhipped liberals: "Feminism won this miniature struggle for liberalism's soul, a fact crystallized by an editorial in The Nation that glibly celebrated Tyson's conviction." (Hey, I wrote that edit--a feminist and a liberal.)
As a parting shot from the old crowd-pleaser, misogynist phase Mailer remarked that he might not have read the letter anyway because he "didn't invite Secretary Shultz here in order to be insulted, to be, uh, pussywhipped." Now there's something he'd never have said in front of the secretary.