play the heavy

play the heavy

To do that which is necessary but undesirable or unpleasant, especially behaving in a mean, strict, or unsympathetic manner. My wife is all cuddles and kisses with the kids, then I have to play the heavy when they misbehave. I know you don't like playing the heavy, but your employees will never respect you don't lay down the law.
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play the heavy

Fig. to act the part of a mean person; to do the unpleasant tasks that no one else wants to do. (Refers originally to playing the role of someone evil in a movie, etc.) I'm a nice guy, but at work, I am required to play the heavy. The boss makes me do all the cruel things.
See also: heavy, play

play the heavy

Act the part of a villain; take the blame for unkind behavior. For example, She can't bear firing an employee, so she relies on Jim to play the heavy. This colloquial term comes from the theater, where heavy has been used for a stern, serious role or that of a villain since the early 1800s.
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play the heavy, to

To take the role of villain; by extension, to take the blame for meanness, cruelty, and other undesirable behavior. The adjective heavy was used to describe the villain’s part in theater from about 1800 on, and by 1900 heavy was being used as a noun for such a role. Only in the mid-twentieth century was it extended to offstage events, as in J. D. Salinger’s Franny and Zooey (1962): “I’m sick to death of being the heavy in everyone’s life.”
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References in classic literature ?
He rehearsed all the afternoon how he should play the heavy father for the young man's edification till he reduced his children to helpless giggling.
Captain Avery has sort of lost control of these guys, so we need someone to play the heavy, to come in to crack the whip," Miller told (http://tvline.
It is a challenge to play the heavy instrument when she is a girl of 7, but her Mama believes in her and her Grandpa John helps her learn.
The Scot, who stars as Hagrid in the final Harry Potter movie which opens next week, said he had to work hard to avoid being typecast at first He said: "The worst thing is that when you get to London as a Glaswegian, they want you to play the heavy.
From their earliest moments, massive stars play the heavy.
Summers' defenders say he had no choice but to play the heavy when other Europeans refused to confront Germany directly and say that Koch-Weser was unacceptable.
It keeps you from setting unrealistic expectations, it helps to avoid unpleasant surprises, and it's a good way to avoid having you or the AD play the heavy.
Somewhere along the way, as it invariably does, the air went out of Salle's will to play the heavy.
They want us to play the heavy in their drama of packaged grief, to provide rivetting programming to run between commercials.