on (one's) (own) head
Being one's sole responsibility to bear. I won't rat you out, but if you get caught cheating it's on your own head! She's the one who cheated, so in my book, their marital troubles are on her head.
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on someone's head
Fig. [for something negative] belonging only to one person or group. All the blame fell on their heads. I don't think that all the criticism should be on my head.
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs. © 2002 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.