let (one) down gently

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let (one) down gently

To deliver bad news to someone in the kindest or least upsetting way possible. When you tell Ed that somebody already asked you to the dance, please let him down gently. I tried to let Susan down gently, but she burst into tears nonetheless.
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let someone down gently

seek to give someone bad news in a way that avoids causing them too much distress or humiliation.
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I have to let them down gently or even, if they are being really persistent, walk away or tell them to get lost.
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Just type in the name of the person you want to ditch and two reasons why you want to leave them and they will come up with a song to let them down gently.
If you're not interested, let them down gently - it's kinder than letting them wait for a phone call that will never come.
Sometimes victims can unwittingly encourage their behaviour by feeling sorry for them and trying to let them down gently. But stalkers will distort what someone says to suit their purpose.
"You have to let them down gently. But I've had lovely letters from young girls trying to come to terms with their sexuality and they say Virginia's helped them."
We let them have their five minutes, then we let them down gently."