leave (one) to stew

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leave (one) to stew

To allow one to feel fearful, anxious, guilty, etc., without offering them comfort or closure on the matter. After the kids broke the window, I left them to stew in their bedroom for a while before laying into them about it. I can tell that the boss is upset with how my report turned out, but I think he's just leaving me to stew about it before he brings it up.
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If someone's being awkward and moody and shows no sign of wanting to cheer up, leave them to stew in their own juice.
A IF companies or agencies give you the impression that being 50 is negative then leave them to stew and find somewhere that deserves you
A TAKE my advice, if companies or agencies give you the impression that being 50 is negative then leave them to stew and find somewhere that deserves you