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be (not) (one's) brother's keeper

To be responsible for another person's actions. This phrase is often used in the negative and can refer to anyone (not just one's literal brother). Of course I'm disappointed that Travis got arrested again, but I'm not my brother's keeper. When I'm babysitting him, I'm my brother's keeper.
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finders keepers(, losers weepers)

A children's rhyme meaning that if someone finds something, they are entitled to keep it (even if it belongs to someone else). Jake yelled "finders keepers" as he dashed toward the house with the sparkling ring he had discovered. A: "Hey, that's my favorite toy!" B: "But I found it out on the playground. Finders keepers, losers weepers!"
See also: finder, loser

not (someone's) keeper

A rude or flippant way to say that one is not be responsible for another person's actions, behavior, or whereabouts. Of course I'm disappointed that Travis got arrested again, but I'm not his keeper. How should I know where Mary is? I'm not her keeper.
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not (one's) brother's keeper

A rude or flippant way to say that one is not be responsible for another person's actions, behavior, or whereabouts. Of course I'm disappointed that Travis got arrested again, but I'm not my brother's keeper. How should I know where Mary is? I'm not my brother's keeper.
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be one's brother's keeper

to be responsible for someone else. (Used of others besides just real brothers.) I can't force these kids to go to school and get an education so they can get jobs. I am not my brother's keeper. You can't expect me to be my brother's keeper. Each of us should be responsible for himself! be one's own man and be one's own master to be someone who is not controlled by other people; to be an independent person. Bert longed to be his own master, but at the same time feared losing the security he had as the employee of a large company. When I go away to college, I'll be my own man. My parents won't be able to tell me what to do anymore.
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finders keepers(, losers weepers)

Prov. If you find something, you are entitled to keep it. (This is a children's rhyme and sounds childish when used by adults.) Bill: Hey! How come you're using my fountain pen? Fred: It's mine now. I found it on the floor—finders keepers, losers weepers. Child: That's my hat. You can't have it. Playmate: I found it. Finders keepers.
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I am not my brother's keeper.

 and Am I my brother's keeper?
Prov. You are not responsible for another person's doings or whereabouts. (Biblical.) Fred: Where's Robert? Jane: Am I my brother's keeper? Jill: How could you let Jane run off like that? Alan: I'm not my brother's keeper.
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finders, keepers

A phrase meaning that whoever finds something is entitled to keep it. For example, Someone left a dollar bill in this rented car-finders, keepers. This expression alludes to an ancient Roman law to that effect and has been stated in numerous different ways over the centuries. The modern version, often stated as Finders keepers, losers weepers, dates from the mid-1800s and is no longer a legal precept.
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finders keepers

If someone, especially a child, says finders keepers, they mean that they have a right to keep something they have found. My umbrella has not been returned. Obviously, someone picked it up and has made no effort to find the owner. Finders, keepers.
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not someone's keeper

If you are asked where someone is and you answer that you are not their keeper, you are saying in quite a rude way that you do not know where they are and you cannot be expected to know. `I've no idea where he is,' Hughes replied, `I'm not his keeper.'
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not your brother's keeper

You can say that you are not your brother's keeper to indicate that you do not accept responsibility for other people in any way. Part of me wants to help him, but part of me realizes I can't be my brother's keeper. Note: These expressions come from a story in the Bible. Cain has killed his brother, Abel, but tries to deny it. `And the Lord said unto Cain, Where is Abel thy brother? And he said, I know not: Am I my brother's keeper?' (Genesis 4:9)
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finders keepers (losers weepers)

used, often humorously, to assert that whoever finds something by chance is entitled to keep it (and the person who lost it will just have to lament its loss). informal
This expression has been widely used since the early 19th century, although the idea goes back much further and is found in the work of the Roman dramatist Plautus. A variant sometimes heard is findings keepings .
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ˌfinders ˈkeepers

(saying) (often used by children) anyone who finds something has a right to keep it: I just found a pound coin on the ground. Finders keepers, so it’s mine!
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n. something that can be kept; something that qualifies. This fish is a keeper. Throw the others out.
References in classic literature ?
As ill-luck would have it, the gentleman who owned the opposite bank, after allowing it for some time without interference, had ordered his keepers not to let the boys fish on his side--the consequence of which had been that there had been first wranglings and then fights between the keepers and boys; and so keen had the quarrel become that the landlord and his keepers, after a ducking had been inflicted on one of the latter, and a fierce fight ensued thereon, had been up to the great school at calling-over to identify the delinquents, and it was all the Doctor himself and five or six masters could do to keep the peace.
The boys had this great advantage over their enemies, that they spent a large portion of the day in nature's garb by the river-side, and so, when tired of swimming, would get out on the other side and fish, or set night-lines, till the keepers hove in sight, and then plunge in and swim back and mix with the other bathers, and the keepers were too wise to follow across the stream.
The stream was deep here, but some fifty yards below was a shallow, for which he made off hot-foot; and forgetting landlords, keepers, solemn prohibitions of the Doctor, and everything else, pulled up his trousers, plunged across, and in three minutes was creeping along on all fours towards the clump of willows.
Take your choice of those not assigned," said the keeper, "and when you have your quota conduct them to the field.
By: Egypt Today staff CAIRO -- 5 September 2017: The technical staff of the Egyptian national team are in a great dilemma over choosing the goal keeper who will be in Tuesday's match against Uganda which will be held at 8:00 p.
Now you need to play some football," said Dutch keeper Jasper Cillessen, who has just replaced Bravo at Barca.
Brady Keeper will be leaving his home province a bit sooner than expected.
within this land, a story sleeps the world you see is a dream this story, the ancient Keepers keep and always has it been I am the dunes, their story I have kept for I am the Keeper but long have I slept look around you now, as I wake look at my world as it changes day by day here there is the end of the sea, the start of the land here all is connected from the turning of the tides to the shifting of the sands here, all is one, I am the dunes.
Top Irish league net minders Sean O Neill and Conor Devlin, along with former Antrim keeper Sean McGreevy, will be among the coaches on hand to help develop young keepers aged nine upwards.
DVLA automatically issues a vehicle tax refund when a notification is received from the registered keeper that the:
Herpetology keeper Heather Prince said: "It's an incredibly exciting time for the zoo though and, even though there's a lot of extra work, it's nice to add all of the wonderful new arrivals.
CURLY HAIR SOLUTIONS IS BUILDING ON THE SUCCESS of its original Curl Keeper by introducing two new products to complete its trio of curly hair helpers.
TEHRAN (FNA)- Arsenal want to sign Real Madrid and Spain keeper Iker Casillas before the end of the World Cup as Arsene Wenger looks to solve keeper crisis.
Keeper Sam Grove explained: "Windows steam up when we spray water into enclosures and that means we have to reach through the rear door, disturbing the reptiles in the process, to wipe down the glass.