hold (something) over (one's) head

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hold (something) over (one's) head

To continually remind one of one's past mistakes, wrongdoings, or failures. Greg is such jerk—I just know he'll keep holding it over my head if I don't land a sale soon. You need to forgive and forget and stop holding the things she said in anger over her head. She never meant to hurt you—you know that.
See also: head, hold, over
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