give a pain
give (one) a pain
To annoy or irk someone. Please leave us alone—you're really giving me a pain. Ugh, the incessant wailing of that car alarm is really giving me a pain.
give someone a pain
Fig. to annoy or bother someone. Please don't give me a pain. I've had a hard day. You give me a pain! She's such a pest. She really gives me a pain.