disease to please

the disease to please

A constant need to make others happy. I think you're miserable because you have the disease to please. Try doing what makes you happy instead.
See also: disease, please, to
Farlex Dictionary of Idioms. © 2022 Farlex, Inc, all rights reserved.

(the) disease to please

an obsessive need to please people. I, like so many, am afflicted with the disease to please. I am just too nice for my own good.
See also: disease, please, to
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs. © 2002 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.
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"I think this is a moment where no matter what business you work in, there have been women who not only had the disease to please, that's a part of it, but who felt that in order to keep my job, in order to keep my positioning, in order to keep moving forward, I've got to smile, I've got to look the other way, I've got to pretend he didn't say that, I've got to pretend he didn't touch me - I think those days are about to be over." Trump vs Oprah Trump, who has lauded Winfrey as worthy of the vice presidency, dismissed her on Tuesday as a threat, albeit cordially.
Jason referred to the joy of beating the "disease to please", Liz quipped, "As you get older the control mechanism on the jaw relaxes", while Helen Mirren, the poster girl of gerontology, sums it up spicily when she says: "At 70 years old, if I could give my younger self one piece of advice, it would be to use the words f*** off much more frequently."
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