a/(one's) dance card

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a/(one's) dance card

A list that women used to make of the men with whom they intended to dance at a ball, gala, or similar formal dance. A: "I can't remember the name of that charming fellow I danced with at the end of the night." B: "Didn't you write it on your dance card?" The first time I saw your grandmother, I was desperate to get on her dance card before the end of the night. You know, if you'd gone to a dance like this back in the day, you'd have a dance card filled out with all your prospective partners.
See also: card, dance
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dance card

A list of dance partners. Although the youth of today may find it hard to believe, there was a time when couples that went to a party or a dance danced with other people. This was especially true at proms, cotillions, and balls. In order for a woman, and not just the belle of the ball, to keep track of her partners, she entered their names on a dance card, a small booklet issued by the event's organizers that was attached to the wrist or dress with a thin cord. It was then up to the gentlemen to remember their partners for the evening (men often kept their own lists). As a marginally polite but pointed way to brush someone off, you might smile and say, “I'd love to, but my dance card is filled."
See also: card, dance
Endangered Phrases by Steven D. Price Copyright © 2011 by Steven D. Price
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