tell somebody where to put/stick something
tell (one) where to put it
rude slang An expression of frustration or anger, usually said when one doesn't want to do or accept something. The phrase encourages the person in question to put something up their buttocks. If she assigns me one more project, I'm going to tell her where to put it! A: "How did you end up in jail?" B: "Well, the officer tried to give me a parking ticket, and I told him where to put it."