play second fiddle

play second fiddle

if you play second fiddle to someone, they are in a stronger position or are more important than you. You'll have to choose between your wife and me. I won't play second fiddle to anyone. (usually + to)

See also: fiddle, play, second

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play second fiddle (to someone/something)

to be in a less important position than someone or something else. Radio has been playing second fiddle to television for decades now.

Usage notes: sometimes used without play

Etymology: based on the literal meaning of second fiddle (= the lower part for a violin, a musical instrument with strings)

See also: fiddle, play, second