not know whether you are coming or going

not know whether (one) is coming or going

To be in a state of confusion, especially due to being overly busy or overwhelmed. Lisa has been so busy getting everything ready for the party, she doesn't know whether she's coming or going.
See also: coming, going, know, not

not know whether one is coming or going

To be in a state of utter confusion or chaos. There are so many things going on at once these days that I don't know whether I'm coming or going!
See also: coming, going, know, not, one

not know whether you are coming or going

SPOKEN
If you don't know whether you are coming or going, you feel very confused and are unable to think clearly. We worked 16 hours a day. By the end of the week we didn't know whether we were coming or going. The truth is I'm so excited that I hardly know whether I'm coming or going.
See also: coming, going, know, not
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