mind your p's and q's

mind (one's) p's and q's

To be polite and display good manners. Be sure to mind your p's and q's when you visit your aunt this weekend! The mother reminded her young children to mind their p's and q's when they went over to their friends' houses for play dates.
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mind your p's and q's

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watch your p's and q's

If you mind your p's and q's or watch your p's and q's, you try to speak and behave politely. She always minded her p's and q's in front of the queen, but their relationship wasn't that close. Note: This expression may originally have been a warning to children not to confuse p's and q's when learning the alphabet. Alternatively, `p's and q's' may stand for `pleases and thankyous', or expressions of politeness.
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mind your ˌP’s and ˈQ’s

(informal) be careful how you behave; remember to be polite: Sally’s got very strict ideas about how her children should behave, so mind your P’s and Q’s.This expression probably refers to the P in ‘please’ and the pronunciation of ‘thank you’ which sounds like Q.
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mind your p's and q's

Behave yourself. Opinion is divided over what the letters in the admonition to “mind your p's and q's” mean. They might have been two similar-looking letters that typesetters were warned not to confuse. They might have stood for pints and quarts that tavern keepers could have confused. Neither, however, is close to the idea of being on your best behavior, but p standing for “please” and q for “thank you” (pronounced thank-kew) does. And that's how generations of parents reminded their children to remember their manners.
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Baby, you'd better mind your P's and Q's when you're in a scene with them because they'll bury you.
Mind your p's and q's as well as your I's and t's and r's and a's.