He suggests: "Find an activity you love doing - biking, hiking, pilates, horizontal hula
While our motivations may be different as men and women, there is nothing wrong with two consenting strangers who decide to end a night with a little horizontal hula
Don't ignore changes in sexual behaviour, such as subtle changes in regularity or style of doing the horizontal hula
- they want to try things they've never done with you before.
Visiting relatives and friends also turned people off doing the horizontal hula
in case they were heard in action.