have it out with someone

have it out (with someone)

To have an argument, verbal fight, or frank discussion (with someone), especially to settle something that has caused anger, frustration, or annoyance. I had to have it out with my roommate because he never does his share of cleaning in the house. Tom and his boyfriend are always having it out.
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have it out with someone

attempt to resolve a contentious matter by confronting someone and engaging in a frank discussion or argument. informal
See also: have, out