have it both ways

have it both ways

to satisfy two opposing groups or opinions. Americans want to have it both ways, saying they strongly believe in certain principles while reserving the right not to apply them in difficult situations.

Usage notes: often used in the form not have it both ways: I don't see how critics can say that it won't be effective and that it will be too tough – you can't have it both ways.A tough one to define--SL, 10/02 / 2/03 -cb

square the circle

See also: both, ways