been had

be had

To be deluded, tricked, swindled, or outsmarted. (Always used in the past tense.) I was had by that insurance salesmen. Now we're paying twice as much for a plan that, in reality, doesn't cover anything! I think you were had, my friend. That car is a complete piece of junk. The master chess player was had in the end by the young prodigy.

been had

 and was had; have been had 
1. (of a woman) been copulated with; been made pregnant. I've been had, and I'm going to have the baby. When she said she had been had, I didn't know it happened on her honeymoon.
2. been mistreated, cheated, or dealt with badly. Look at this cheap shirt that I paid $30 for! I was had! I've been had by that lousy gyp joint.
See also: been

been had

and was had
1. phr. been copulated with; been made pregnant. I’ve been had, and I’m going to have the baby. I was so had! Twins!
2. phr. been mistreated, cheated, or dealt with badly. (see also taken.) Look at this shirt! I was had!
See also: been