Idioms

hold a grudge

hold a grudge

To harbor persistent and continual resentment or ill feelings toward someone, especially for some slight or wrongdoing they have committed in the past. Johnny has been holding a grudge against me since we were 12 because I embarrassed him in front of a girl he liked. Samantha is just so forgiving—I don't think she's ever held a grudge in her life! Although our disagreement happened months ago, Lily is clearly still holding a grudge.
See also: grudge, hold
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hold a grudge

(against someone) Go to bear a grudge (against someone).
See also: grudge, hold
McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs. © 2002 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.
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References in periodicals archive
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