break (one's) balls
rude slang "Balls" is slang for the testicles, so the phrase in each meaning is usually (but not solely) said of or by a man.
1. To exert oneself to the utmost degree; to put forth the maximum amount of effort or strain. I've been breaking my balls trying to get the new software ready by the release date. Don't break your balls getting over here, there's no rush. We broke our balls cleaning the house before Mom got here, and she still said her room was dusty!
2. To harass, harangue, or pressure one about something, especially for a lengthy period of time. The boss has been breaking our balls over the number of sales our department has made this quarter. I said I would get it done today. Quit breaking my balls! I wouldn't have to break your balls if you would just do your chores like you're supposed to!
3. To tease one; to give one a hard time. Aw, come on, dude, I was just breaking your balls. No need to get upset about it. Please, I'm used to that kind of teasing—I grew up with three older brothers who loved breaking my balls. You're a rookie, which means the veterans on the team are going to break your balls every chance they get.
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