balance the scales

1. To achieve a harmonious or satisfying equilibrium between two or more conflicting elements. Many adults today are struggling to balance the scales when it comes to their home life and the amount of time they spend working. My son is a really talented athlete, but I want to be sure we balance the scales and give him time to have unstructured fun, like any other kid. I'm not going to lie—it's hard to balance the scales between my roles as "mom" and "wife."

2. To achieve justness, fairness, or equality in some situation. The advocacy group focuses on balancing the scales in the criminal justice system to ensure that all people are treated to a fair trial and equal representation. We're hopeful that this change will, in time, balance the scales that are so often tilted in our legal system. All right, fine, you can stay out till 10:30, like your sister. There, does that balance the scales?