a punch to the gut
A thoroughly devastating or disappointing loss, setback, or failure. Losing the championship match in the final moments like that was a real punch to the gut. I won't lie—the outcome in court was a punch to the gut. We were hoping for justice, but we were let down. She said her mother's death was a punch to the gut, one she's only now beginning to cope with.
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