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in spite of (oneself)

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in spite of (oneself)

1. Despite one's own foibles, mistakes, or flaws. Somehow the Eagles managed to pull off a victory in spite of themselves. I knocked over my drink and called her the wrong name at one point, but all in all, I think the date went well in spite of myself. If he doesn't talk much, he might be able to have a successful interview in spite of himself!
2. Despite or against one's desire or intention. I was scared senseless when I realized there was a burglar in the house, but I laughed in spite of myself when he slipped on a banana peel on the kitchen floor. My little boy raises the cutest objections to time-outs that I end up smiling in spite of myself. I was riding the bus when I read that massive spoiler and gasped in spite of myself.
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in spite of someone or something

without regard to someone or something; even though another course had been prescribed; ignoring a warning. In spite of her orders to stay, I left. In spite of the bad weather, I had fun on vacation.
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McGraw-Hill Dictionary of American Idioms and Phrasal Verbs. © 2002 by The McGraw-Hill Companies, Inc.

in spite of

Regardless of, in defiance of, as in They kept on in spite of their fears. [c. 1400]
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The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer. Copyright © 2003, 1997 by The Christine Ammer 1992 Trust. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights reserved.

(do something) in ˈspite of yourself

(do something) even though you do not want or expect to: He was a bit depressed so I tried to cheer him up with a joke. He smiled in spite of himself.
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in spite of

Not stopped by; regardless of: They kept going in spite of their fears.
See also: of, spite
American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fifth Edition. Copyright © 2016 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights reserved.
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References in periodicals archive
And we learn how God calls even the most reluctant of us to speak God's word and do God's work and how God does great things through us, sometimes even in spite of ourselves.
is fascinating reading for Americans as well, since it gives a no-nonsense, plain-terms summary of America's modern culture, revealing subconsciously internalized forces that drive us in spite of ourselves.
It is the vulnerability of our bodies--our need for food--that sends us back to the table, even sometimes in spite of ourselves. So often our bodily vulnerability seems like a constraint, a limit.
In spite of ourselves, the grace for eternal life that flows from Calvary through the resurrected Jesus is still open to everyone through repentance and faith, if they give their hearts to Him.
And Professor of Biology Garrett Hardin (Science, December 1968), with his "The Tragedy of the Commons," taught us why we nominally rational humans degrade our environment in spite of ourselves.
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