all is grist that comes to the mill

proverb All that one experiences, encounters, or obtains in life can be put to good use. Said especially of things that initially seem undesirable or harmful. A: "The tabloids found out that you've been in rehab. How do you plan on handling it?" B: "I'm a changed man now, and that's what I'll tell the media. In any case, at least they're writing about me again. All is grist that comes to the mill, eh?" I love that my therapist is so open to discussing absolutely anything, good or bad. "All is grist that comes to the mill," she says. I know you hate having to deal with your mother, but all is grist that comes to the mill, right?

See also: all, come, grist, mill, that, to

grist for (one's) mill

Something that initially seems bad or negative but is ultimately used in a positive way by someone. A: "The tabloids found out that you've been in rehab. How do you plan on handling it?" B: "It's just grist for my mill—I'm a changed man now, and that's what I'll tell the media. At least they're writing about me again!" I love that my therapist is so open to discussing absolutely anything, good or bad. "Everything is grist for our mill," she says. A: "I know you hate having to deal with your mother, but it's all grist for your mill, right?" B: "Yeah, sure, personal growth and all that."

See also: for, grist, mill

grist for the mill

Something that initially seems bad or negative but is ultimately used in a positive way by someone. A: "The tabloids found out that you've been in rehab. How do you plan on handling it?" B: "It's just grist for the mill—I'm a changed man now, and that's what I'll tell the media. At least they're writing about me again!" I love that my therapist is so open to discussing absolutely anything, good or bad. "Everything is grist for the mill," she says. A: "I know you hate having to deal with your mother, but it's all grist for the mill, right?" B: "Yeah, sure, personal growth and all that."

See also: for, grist, mill

grist to (one's) mill

Something that initially seems bad or negative but is ultimately used in a positive way by someone. A: "The tabloids found out that you've been in rehab. How do you plan on handling it?" B: "It's just grist to my mill—I'm a changed man now, and that's what I'll tell the media. At least they're writing about me again!" I love that my therapist is so open to discussing absolutely anything, good or bad. "Everything is grist to our mill," she says. A: "I know you hate having to deal with your mother, but it's all grist to your mill, right?" B: "Yeah, sure, personal growth and all that."

grist to the mill

A useful resource in a particular situation. If my detractors hear about this blunder, it will just be grist to the mill. I love that my therapist is so open to discussing absolutely anything, good or bad. "Everything is grist to the mill," she says. A: "I know you hate having to deal with your mother, but it's all grist to the mill, right?" B: "Yeah, sure, personal growth and all that."

grist for the mill

and grist for someone's mill; grist to the mill

Fig. something useful or needed. Bob bases the novels he writes on his own experience, so everything that happens to him is grist for the mill. Ever since I started making patchwork quilts, every scrap of cloth I find is grist for the mill.

See also: for, grist, mill

grist for the mill

Something that can be used to advantage, as in These seemingly useless data will be grist for the mill when he lodges a complaint. This expression alludes to grist, the amount of grain that can be ground at one time. [Late 1500s]

See also: for, grist, mill

The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer. Copyright © 2003, 1997 by The Christine Ammer 1992 Trust. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights reserved.

grist for the mill

BRITISH, AMERICAN or

grist to the mill

BRITISH

COMMON If something is grist for the mill or grist to the mill, you can use it in a particular situation to help you to do something. Celebrity gossip is, of course, grist for the mill as far as the tabloids are concerned. You are, of course, much better at writing songs when you are completely miserable — it gives you so much more grist for the mill. Note: `Grist' was grain that was brought to a windmill or watermill to be ground. Millers needed regular supplies of grain to keep their businesses in operation.

See also: for, grist, mill

grist to the mill

experience, material, or knowledge which can be turned to good use.

Grist in the sense of ‘corn that is to be ground’ is now used only in this phrase and in the proverb all is grist that comes to the mill . The word is related to Old Saxon gristgrimmo meaning ‘gnashing of teeth’.

grist for/to somebody’s ˈmill

(of an experience, a piece of information, etc.) useful to somebody: As a novelist, I feel that any experience, good or bad, is grist to my mill.

Grist is corn that is is ready to be crushed in a mill in order to make flour.

grist for

(one's)/the mill

Something that can be used to advantage.

grist for the mill, that's

That’s something useful, of which advantage can be taken. This metaphor refers to grist, the amount of grain to be ground at one time. It has been used figuratively since the sixteenth century. Arthur Golding, translator of Calvin’s theological writings, wrote, “There is no lykelihoode that those thinges will bring gryst to the mill” (1583). It was surely a cliché by the time Dickens wrote, “Meantime the fools bring grist to my mill, so let them live out their day” (Nicholas Nickleby, 1838).